1)if you want something you need to work to earn it.
2)the world does not owe you anything! you are not entitled to things you have not earned.
3)responsibility for actions: there are consequences and rewards for your actions.
I am by far not the perfect parent but these are the moments that are so rewarding for me -to be able to teach my children important life lessons that I hope they'll remember and practice through out their lives. I love my babies so much and want them to be truly happy. Even though their both still so young, it's never too early to prepare them for the future.